Some words you may have seen but don't yet recognise.

Polyfidelity

V relationship

Triad

Quad

Open Relationship

Polygamy

Polyandry

Polygyny

SO

SO's SO, Partner-in-law

Primary

Secondary

Friend-with-benefits

Fuck-buddy

NRE

Compersion

Frubble

 

 


 

Polyfidelity

A relationship style where members of a group of any size agree to be sexually exclusive to one another. Usually new members to the group are admitted only by mutual consent of the existing members.

V relationship

Where person A is in relationship with both persons B and C, but B and C are not in an intimate relationship with each other. Person A would be described as the 'hinge' of that V. It's possible to get long strings of Vs connecting into what are jokingly referred to as 'W's.

Triad

A relationship between three people, each of whom is intimately connected to the others.

Quad

A relationship between four people, each of whom is intimately connected to all the others.

Open relationship

An ambiguous term used in differing contexts with various meanings, primarily to indicate consensual non-monogamy. It's worth checking what an individual means by their own personal use of the term.

Polygamy

One partner of one gender with multiple spouses or partners of the opposite gender.

Polyandry

One woman with multiple husbands.

Polygyny

One man with multiple wives.

SO

Significant Other. Otherwise undefined important relationship.

SO's SO, partner-in-law

Significant Other's Significant Other, or partner's partner.

Primary

A relationship which other relationships are not allowed to threaten. Primary relationships may involve cohabitation, financial commitment, co-parenting, life commitment (c.f. marriage). and involvement in and negotiation around significant decisions.

Secondary

A significant relationship usually with lower priority and time involvement than a primary relationship. Secondaries are less likely to have financial involvement or coparenting commitments than primary relationships.

Friend-with-benefits

Where the emphasis is on the friendship, with sporadic sexual contact, and usually without partner-level commitment.

Fuck-buddy

As the name suggests, a relationship focused primarily on the sexual connection.

NRE

New Relationship Energy: the huge buzz and energy-boost experienced when you fall in love.

Compersion

The delicious joy of experiencing a beloved
being loved by another. "When she told me about her date I went squishy
with compersion."

Frubble

Similar to 'compersion'. "I felt all frubbly watching him being snogged by her."