Well, here we are with another update. My wife and I have been talking and we are both happy with our decision some months on from choosing a poly lifestyle. And something very unexpected has happened. My wife has befriended what is commonly known in open relationship circles as a 'Unicorn' - a hot, single female looking for a couple to play with/share their love with. I don't think my wife will be interested in her, she's still trying to get over her other
What can I say? I'm no Cleo Bachelor of the Year and have never, until the past few weeks, had the pleasure of being pursued by someone as beautiful (and downright sexy) as this person. It's taken me a good few weeks just too deflate my head enough just to be able to get out of my home! We've exchanged photos but have yet to meet. She should be coming around fairly soon and we'll see if there's an emotional connection there too (fingers crossed).
At the very least, I should get to sleep with her at least once and this will be the very first test of our open relationship at least as far as sex is concerened. Hopefully though we'll get at least a friendship out of this if not an ongoing relationship. Prior to this, it has all been one-sided desires for other people. How will we both react when it's actually done? Will I be able to go through with it? Will everything change afterwards? It will never be the same but will it change for the better? Worse?
Either way, I feel it is time to test this out and see if we really are up to an open relationship. As I said earlier, even if we end up with just a friendship and nothing more, we would have put out relationship to it's first true test. I'll keep you posted!
Ciao
Shadow
